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About the book:
Qualities of a good wife
Marriage is commanded by God to build the universe and increase offspring, and has decreed for each soul to have its spouse, as God Almighty said: God’s approach, for religion is the principle, and it is the criterion by which each side of the spouses chooses and accepts the other.

why marriage
And God has legislated marriage, as He, the Most High, said (And We have taken from you a firm covenant), which indicates the strength and importance of the contract, and the importance of fulfilling it, and that it requires patience over mistakes, tolerance when slips occur, and contentment with what God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, divided for both parties. (The world is enjoyment, and the best enjoyment of the world is a good woman), because the wife is the important and active element in the marriage entity, and it is necessary to achieve qualities that guarantee her goodness, so by achieving it she fixes her home, and there is goodness and blessing in it, and among these qualities: an obedient wife, the husband is the captain of a ship. married life, and for the safe sailing of the ship, one must listen and obey this captain, God Almighty said: (The good deeds are obedient).

Characteristics of a good wife
The characteristics of a righteous wife, a faithful and upright wife, who knows the limits of God, is governed by His law, helps her husband to abide by God’s commands, and to avoid their prohibitions. She is responsible for them. An educated and conscious wife, who is aware of what is happening of events and developments, and that the wife is courteous to her husband, loves him, participates with him in making decisions, and contributes to bearing responsibility with him. And her children, to please her husband if he looks at them, a wife who balances all the affairs of her marital life, and performs her duties to the fullest, without negligence or negligence.

Qualities of a good wife.
Qualities of a good wife.. When carrying out what God has commanded of marriage, this implementation must be in accordance with the legal criteria that are pleasing to God, and among these criteria, the husband should choose a pious wife, not the one who claims piety and does not follow her path and does not truly follow her .

The wife is to be obedient to the love of God Almighty and His Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him; This love pushes her to absolute obedience to God and His Messenger, and as Ibn Al-Qayyim said in this love: (Love is a tree in the heart, its veins are humiliation for the beloved, its stem is his knowledge, its branches are his fear, its leaf is shyness from him, its fruit is obedience to him, and its substance is watered by his remembrance. From that it was deficient), if the love of God and the love of His Messenger settled in her heart; That made her do everything that God and His Messenger love.

God Almighty's observance of her; Sensing God’s observance compels her to do everything that is good. If she neglects that observance, she will begin to break into the sanctities of God and disobey Him. To compel her mistake. As for the one who leaves herself submitting to her whims, she has lost that soul and wasted a great deal, not following the steps of Satan, so she learns his machinations and whispers and tries hard to avoid falling into them. His book: (Indeed, Satan is an enemy to you, so take him as an enemy. He only invites his party to be among the companions of the swords, so what is the greatness of disobedience to God in it.

Husband’s rights over his wife Married life between spouses includes rights and duties that ensure harmony between them and increase intimacy, friendliness and respect.

Short words in the mention of what is hoped to be applied by Muslim women, and they are directed to every guardian under whom there are daughters or women, and every girl who has not yet married, and every married woman until she develops these morals and possesses those qualities. .