dr. aisyah dahlan

Dr. ASYAH DAHLAN

Research on the differences in the brains of women and men takes approximately 10 years.

_*The following differences include:*_

*1. Number of Communications per day*
*Men* utter no more than *7000 words*, including verbal and non-verbal words and language.

*woman* lets out *20,000 words*


*2. Brain development*
The left brain regulates the right side of the body, works to remember words, math, verbal, logical, facts, analysis, poetry, singing, lineal, detail and more organized.

The right brain tends to be creative, color, artistic, visualization, intuition, ideas, imagination, holistic, music, form and space.

In men, the right brain develops first, this is what causes boys aged less than 18 years to seem relaxed, not serious. After 18 years, his left brain develops the same as his right brain.

In women, the right brain and left brain develop balanced, this causes girls at school age to tend to be smarter in all things.

But the size of the male right brain is larger than the female after fully developed.

*3. Corpus Colossum (Middle Brain)*
Male: The midbrain is thin. So the left and right brain work independently. This causes the male to quickly focus after 10 minutes. And at the time the focus of male hearing decreased.

Female: The midbrain is 30% thicker, so the left brain and right brain are connected. Causing women to do more than one job at a time.

It's natural, 88% of men are rarely gentle, rarely pay attention, rarely understand women and are rarely good at communicating.

*4. Women when angry are difficult to be honest.*

Men when angry or upset will come clean.

*5. Women when stressed need to talk, while men will be silent to find solutions (the right brain works).*

Men think women don't want to be asked when they are under pressure like him, even though women need to express their complaints. This sometimes causes fights.

Women also think the same thing when men are in trouble, women will ask a lot of questions when men just want to be quiet. Men will talk when they have found a solution.

*6. When a woman confides, she just wants to be listened to, while a man when he hears a vent always offers a solution* as a form of responsibility. Sometimes this can be a source of contention.

*7. Women talk like eye contact* because the thick midbrain makes them strong to look into the eyes for a long time, while *Men don't like eye contact.* Men prefer to see objects.

*8. Male eyes narrow angle, * Cornea and Retina eyes extend straight can not widen. This makes it sometimes difficult to find items.

*Women's perspective is wide*, Cornea and Retina widen.

*9. Women have difficulty reading maps or directions.* Only 12% of women are good at reading maps. This is due to the thickness of the midbrain.

*Men know the way for sure*

If men experience negative emotions (angry, sad) the impact on the right brain, while women if they experience negative emotions, the whole brain is disturbed.

When a woman is sad, the whole brain is affected, the woman is still working but her sadness is still visible. A woman can control 99 emotions with one thought.

Men don't seem sad, because their left brain is not disturbed so they can still work as usual, lead meetings and so on.

Because the emanation of emotions is very large if you are angry that you scream and hit it means that you are very angry. This is why his 1 emotion cannot control his 99 thoughts.

Meanwhile, if a woman is very angry, she will be silent and her body will be stiff.

_8 things that make men cry_
1. Losing a loved one
2. Bankrupt
3. Seeing loved ones suffer
4. Disappointing
5. Disappointed
6. Seeing proud parents
7. Sick
8. Realizing the mistake