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Being a parent is a simple step that is inherent in people by nature itself, but becoming a good parent is a long and very difficult job, which not all people decide on. Parenting has never been an easy process. However, many of the world's psychologists have long established fundamental principles that will help parents get closer to their children and cross the "excellent" mark in this marathon.

📚 About the author of tips
Lochukov Denis Alexandrovich. Work experience in the orphanage for 7 years. Works with different categories and age groups of children and adolescents.

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🌟 The child is not a reflection of the parent

The classical principle of upbringing, which binds many lives in chains, provides for the denial of everything "wrong" that a child dreams of. So, for example, many kids could with all their hearts wish to become ballet dancers, but someone once told them that he could not bear anything from this business. A reasonable reaction as an adult is to try to embody failed dreams in your child. And this is precisely the biggest mistake a parent-educator makes.

A good parent should understand that as soon as his baby learned to think (albeit primitively), he became a person. You cannot deny the dreams of a child, as well as impose your own on him.

A child is not a copy, not a reflection of his parent, who can be bent like a doll.

🌟 No is the answer to restrictions

Adult members seven, cartoons, films - these are all spheres that tell the child that there is more and better, although only the antagonists of life. The stereotype that the villain always thinks of great success, but does not get anything, has firmly settled in the minds for several decades.

Good parents shouldn't limit their baby. On the contrary, it is necessary to say that aspirations and desires to achieve something better are the norm. The main thing is to show the way in which these dreams can be achieved without touching other people's lives.

A good parent is a guide, not a dictator and overseer.

🌟 Cub is defined by grades in school

A grandiose stereotype that has broken tens of thousands of lives: "if a child is an excellent student, he will achieve great success." The problem is probably that the modern education system also adheres to this position, in which teachers, seeing a successful child, seek to give more knowledge to him, forgetting about the other children.

A good parent should understand that his child is talented in something, but even teachers may simply not notice this, because their attention is focused on another subject of society. An excellent educator will strive to develop the child himself, and not rely on some kind of system that supposedly evaluates the knowledge of the child.

📢 IMPORTANT: The parent should remember that the teacher is not a divine being, but an ordinary person with whom one can talk and argue, if the situation requires it.


🌟 Negativity is the norm

Talking about why a child is crying, getting angry, and even: "Can a girl or a boy behave this way" is an eternal problem of society. Every now and then, parents come across, who simply turn away from the negative emotions of their child, instilling in him an aversion to such behavior.

A good parent is a person who never turns away from his baby, but knows how to talk to him. A very important stage in upbringing is talking about bad emotions, about how their manifestation is a normal reaction. Hormones play an important role in human consciousness, which, of course, is very important to talk to the baby about.

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