Воспитание детей и их развитие

The development of a child and his upbringing is one of the most difficult tasks that parents face from the moment the child comes into the family. Sometimes the behavior of a beloved son or daughter is inexplicable. To understand him, you need to enter into a dialogue with the child and the campaign of dialogue to find out why he did this, see the problem through his eyes.

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About the author: Lochukov Denis Aleksandrovich. Total teaching experience is almost 25 years. 7 years of which work experience in an orphanage.

The main role in development and upbringing is played by mutual understanding between parents and children.

There are several ways to properly raise children, but their main ones are love, prudence, consistency. With their help, children will be independent, responsible and smart. Using these methods, children will grow up in the most comfortable conditions for them, will be healthy and smiling.

The most important thing for development and education is:

💖 Love. With her help, parents can take care of the child not only with deeds, but also with advice. The child will understand that if there are any prohibitions, then this is done for his own good.

👩 Prudence. When raising children, all their abilities, desires and limits of capabilities are taken into account. It is important not to demand a lot from the child, but it is also not worth poking. It is also necessary to promote the development of his skills.

🐱 Sequence. Parents' words and actions must match. It is necessary that the child, in the event of a promise to punish him, perceive these words and do not consider them empty threats.

Types of parenting

Head of Family🤠

The family bears the burden of fulfilling all the needs of the child, seeks to relieve his difficulties. As a result, the child will be selfish and it will be difficult for him to develop. He cannot live without not being paid attention to, he is not industrious. Meeting life's difficulties, he is helpless.

Cinderella🧚

There are 2 children in the family, one of whom is loved by the parents more than the other. If you use this method of education, the unloved child will become touchy and secretive.

Severe conditions👹

With strict upbringing, without praise, and punishment for errors and bad behavior, the child will become afraid of his parents, will become cruel.

Parenting in which the parents control the child. Parents observe the actions of the child. At the same time, the child's own opinion is not noticed, because of which he adapts worse. It is difficult to talk about the development of the child in this case.

Greenhouse🌼

Everything is just in time: entertainment, rest, etc. It is forbidden to go out and walk. With this upbringing, the child seeks what he needs outside the family. But in his search, he can harm himself, his health. Such children are not ready for life and fall under the influence of stronger leaders.

Eternal Prince 🤴

Shows that he can achieve a lot. At school he knows all subjects well, but under the burden of moral responsibility he does not have time to develop his own skills. In case of failure, suffers a strong shock.