تصرفي كسيدة و فكري كرجل

Act like a lady and think like a man
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey
Act as a Lady and Think as a Man, by the great international writer Steve Harvey, the title of the book contains many meanings, and one of the most meanings that reach the minds of readers is that a woman thinks like a traveler thinks, and adopts his approach to thinking, but as it is said the meaning is in the poet’s stomach, where it beautifies This title has many meanings, and what the writer intends from this exciting meaning is for a woman to deal with a man according to his thinking and not according to her feelings and feelings, to precede him in thinking before he precedes you with his reaction, which has a great impact on your psyche. This wonderful work is a guide for many women on how to deal with a man in the context of his thinking and integrate with him, we find many women achieve outstanding success and occupy a prominent position in their working lives and their home duties and their duty towards their children, but on the other hand we find a catastrophic failure in their marital and emotional lives The writing vow to write this work on it to serve as a guideline that includes a set of correct advice and methods to help women understand the way men think and then deal with them in the right way.
The idea of ​​making a book Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man
The writer narrates his life in brief and explains that his main work in earning money was to take people out of the daily routine of their boring lives, and get them to laugh at their behavior and the actions of others, and at each other, and at all relationships represented in the relationships of friends, and the relationships of spouses with each other, and relationships The lovers each other, as he derives his jokes in his writings from concrete reality, and from the lives and actions of the people themselves. The idea of ​​the book came when he found many people wondering, reading, looking for relationships, and getting involved in them without being fully aware of the mysteries of these relationships and how to develop them. They are held accountable or punished, and the writer explains that thanks to this book that is in your hands, you can enter the mind of a man and live with him, understand him, and understand everything that goes on inside him.
book contents
The writer divided the book into several topics, each topic discussing a group of life issues, among which we mention, for example, the following: The mentality of the man.

1- What does the man do? A question that arises, and women must understand. What moves a man is his social position, how to reach this position, his financial gains, these three things are the main concern of any man, he wants to succeed first in his working life at the beginning of the matter and does not care about his emotional life at this stage , contrary to what the lady seeks to achieve from the association and the formation of a family.

2- Our love is not the same as your love: Madam, you have to understand and understand that the way you love a man is completely different from the way he loves you. A man’s love is represented in three axes:

The three acts of love.
declaration of love.
Support and protect the beloved.. the man who loves you always seeks to be proud of you in front of everyone, the man who compels you to take care of you in your illness and is keen to take medicine on time, is worried about you, the man who loves you protects you, and fears for you.

3- The three things that every man needs. Every man needs three men from his wife, and every wife must do. He needs the following:

the support.
Fulfillment.
access.

Every woman, if she provides these three things, will have in her hand a humiliated child who loves her, adores her, and does what she asks for, but on the other hand, if the woman refrains from providing such things, then she has no one to blame but herself.